What I Do
Divorce Coaching
Whether you are in the process of divorce or just thinking about it, I can guide you to ensure you are making the right decisions. If you are the one leaving or the one left, both sides are painted with negative and raw feelings from guilt to heartache.
I can help and support you emotionally, by clearing up your past and allowing you to gain confidence in your future.
I can advise you on how best to communicate with your ex and co-parent to include drafting emails/letters and help with text support.
Practical support with the legal process of divorce including assisting with collating items from your former home making sure you are safe and supervised, or support with required paperwork such as Form E's or
personal statements.
Attend solicitors, barrister meetings and other formal meetings ensuring you get the optimum benefit from time spent with your legal team.
If you have not yet found a legal team, I can help you find the right team for you. I have a large artillery of law firms, barristers, mediators that I have worked with over the years that can guid you through the legal process. Having the right team behind you is pivotal to the success of your divorce process.
Court Hearing Coaching
If you have found yourself in the position there is no other way of settling your dispute with your former spouse and a court date is in the diary ahead, this will create stress and anxiety.
With my expert advice and coaching, I will explain what you could expect and to prepare you for this hearing, mentally and emotionally. With guidance of your legal team, I will go through your court bundle and practice on your case. A court hearing is like any other performances, and it’s all about getting you “stage ready”.
Co-parenting
If you and your former spouse have children together, this can cause friction and must, at all costs be avoided for the sake of the children. Having a good relationship with your former spouse, will minimise emotional damage for all parties involved, but for most couples, this may be a hard one to work out.
I will provide you with strategies and skill sets that will make communication with your former partner more straightforward without causing unnecessary friction and to help you learn to create a new way of parenting moving forward.
Dating after Divorce
You might find you are ready to seek love again, this can be a scary process particularly if you have come out of a long relationship or the last time you dated someone was 20 years ago.
Some feel they have lost all confidence in love and themselves, so it is pivotal to a happy life, whether as a single person or in a relationship, you regain your self-love. With motivational coaching and confidence training, I will get you back and you will be on top of your game and feeling excited rather than scared about this process.
Blended families and step parent skills
If you have moved on and find yourself in a big, blended family situation, you may struggle with the roller coaster emotions from your children to your partners becoming a family.
It is very important for all involved the transition from being two families to one big blended one goes smoothly. I can guide you through the process and give you emotional tools that will help and support, not just you, but your whole family.
Being a step-parent is a challenge but with the right attitude and knowledge it can be very rewarding for you and the child.
“A happy family does not have to be blood related, it’s just a happy family”.
